What the Tech: When to start giving kids smart phones
AUGUSTA, Ga. (WRDW/WAGT) - The White House urged Congress this week to find ways to protect children from harmful content they see on social media and the internet using smartphones.
The issue was addressed on Tuesday by U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy in a strongly worded advisory to parents on the risk social media use poses to children.
Parents understand what kids often run across on a smartphone connected to the internet. Even parents who want to hold off giving their children a smartphone often find it difficult because all of their friends have one.
“I didn’t want them to be the only kids with their heads up,” said Brooke Shannon when her elementary-age daughter asked for an iPhone. Rather than giving in to parental peer pressure, Shannon reached out to the parents of her daughter’s friends.
“So I emailed about 20 or so moms just to see what they were thinking and what I kept hearing is the reason parents were giving kids these phones was because they didn’t want their kids to feel left out,” said Shannon
Shannon launched “Wait Until 8th”, an initiative or plan to encourage parents to all say no, at least until the 8th grade.
“That’s around 14,” she explained. “So it gets you through all of elementary school, most of middle school at that point if you want to transition you can, and you’ll have a year before high school.”
The organization has since grown to empower parents as a large group to say yes to waiting.
The Chief Parenting Officer of Bark, Tatania Jordan, has 8 years of research that shows what kids run across when they use phones and social media and says it’s a rather simple solution.
“If a certain amount of parents are together at one school or zip code. They can truly make a difference, but the problem is a lot of parents are isolated. A lot of parents aren’t talking to other parents. We’re operating in isolation as well and that is not powerful,” said Jordon.
Jordan took another step, launching a Facebook group for parents called “Parenting in a Tech World” which now has over 300,000 followers.
“If you’re struggling, go there. You may not know who to talk to in your neighborhood or in your city. Go to that group. There are other parents that have been through what you’re going through and are happy to help,” said Jordan.
Once a child gets a smartphone, it’s nearly impossible to take it back. Taking a stand at the beginning may be the best way to protect children from all the things you wish they’d never see.
‘Wait Until 8th’ asks parents to take a pledge that they’ll hold off on giving their child a phone.
If you’re interested in organizing parents in your school, youth group, or just the circle of parents of your children’s friends, you can find resources on the website.
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